Why Don’t You Love Me?

The first time I heard “Why Don’t You Love Me” By Beyonce, I was in a good head-space. I was with family and I was not aware of the impending doom on my love life that would occur a few days later. (^_^) Anywho, this video was very eye catching to say the least and the beat is so mesmerizing but the message in the lyrics is the most powerful part of the song.

How many women think they are perfect and that they have done nothing to cause a man to not want them. I’ve even said that before. Well, as an adult woman I think I finally realized that thinking I am perfect to me, is good for ME but when you’re in a relationship, you need to be perfect to the person you are in the relationship with.

I am in no way advocating changing yourself to fit the mold of the person you are seeing. That will make you miserable! The person who chooses you has to love everything about you. Some changes are okay as long as they are for the good of YOU and your partner but you should never have to change WHO YOU ARE. Some people are just not meant to be, obviously, or else we’d all be going out with each other.

We have to remember that just because WE want someone DOESN’T mean that they are for us.